Hmm...I was wondering why she has that thought....coz normally I will have that thought...but not her...
I told her that...there is always different people come in and go out in our lives...that's why it is hard to maintain relationship...
human being is always the complicated to deal with and maintain the relationship....
relationship is hard to develop....and it is harder to maintain....however destroying is very easy...
therefore consistency is important....consistency to keep in touch with each other....
sometimes u are sincere to do it...but the other side do not mean it...
hence, you are not succeed in the relationship...
you only will lost a friend when both of you don't contact with each other...
somemore new friend come inside your life, you have neglected your existing friend...
lost of contact with each other automatically lead to end of relationship or you will feel that there is nothing sweet as previous time....
well....I told my friend that...now..you continue keep in touch with your existing friend...
Am I only can do this?
no..I just suggested you the way....better than you don't do anything...and keep losing friend....
of course...we only have one heart....some friends may have the important status in your heart....however...be fair...means dont put too much of your love to oneself....till that you cant face the out of expectation result and make the people run away from you.....ha...
just a simple thought...nothing mean it..unless you get it...
2 comments:
No pain No Gain ~ :)
i agree with u... sometime things in life are uncontrollable... in buddhism it is called "无常"...
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